Alright, lovebirds, the ball has dropped, the confetti has settled, and you’ve already broken at least one New Year’s resolution (we see you, leftover holiday chocolates). But if 2025 is the year you say “I do,” it’s time to swap out vague goals like “be more organized” for wedding goals you can actually stick to.
No shade, but we’ve all seen couples spiral into chaos because their Pinterest boards were more ambitious than their wallets. So, let’s pop some bubbly, grab a fresh planner, and get into it.
Prioritize Like a Pro
Here’s the tea: You can’t have everything. Well, not unless you’re marrying into royalty or your side hustle has taken off in a big way.
Ask yourselves:
- What’s non-negotiable? (Is it the dreamy venue, the perfect photographer, or an open bar worthy of Gatsby himself?)
- What can you live without? (A 5-tier cake might look stunning on Instagram, but will anyone remember it after two espresso martinis?)
Write down your Top 3 Must-Haves and stick to them like glue. Everything else? Nice-to-haves, babe.
Budget, but Make It Cute
The B-word (budget, obvs) doesn’t have to kill the vibe. Think of your wedding budget as your relationship’s first financial trust fall.
- Start with a realistic number. Don’t guess—look at real quotes given to you by your planner with experience, not just Pinterest estimates.
- Trust your planners’ estimates! This is a must, these estimates are just that; ESTIMATES and serve exactly as they should – to guide you and give you a true example of what you can expect to spend on your big day!
- Track spending in one place. Wedding Planning File should be your best friend at this point… you need to know the best what you have already spent (deposits, invoices..) and what and when you are going to spend next!
Timelines Are Your Best Friend
Spoiler alert: Wedding planning without a timeline is like binge-watching a series without snacks—chaotic and borderline dangerous.
Set monthly goals like below:
- January: Finalize menu’s and drinks. Start working on fun stuff like flowers and design!.
- February: Lock in your wedding design and start focusing on other aspects!
- March: Site visit. (a very serious task, btw, come and see Dubrovnik).
Break it down into bite-sized pieces. Trust us, Future You will thank you.
Pinterest vs. Reality Check
Ah, Pinterest—the place where centerpieces are always flawless and couples look airbrushed even in candids.
Look, mood boards are essential, but reality is your bestie:
- That flower wall might cost as much as your honeymoon.
- That cake tower might need actual construction!
- DIY is cute, but do-it-all-yourself is really for the pros.
Choose inspo wisely, and remember: Weddings are about moments, not mood boards.
Mental Health > Micromanaging
Your sanity isn’t a tradeable wedding expense. By following our detailed schedule we are always on track and minimizing the threat of feeling overwhelmed, but sometimes that feeling comes despite the preparation. In that cashew, don’t be afraid to hit pause!
- Delegate tasks to friends or chat with your planner (shoutout to wedding besties—you’re the real MVPs).
- Schedule wedding-free nights. No guest lists, no table plans, just you two and maybe some Netflix.
- Remember why you’re doing this: love, connection, and probably some great dance floor memories.
Celebrate the Little Wins
Booked the photographer? Cheers.
Found the dress? Double cheers.
Survived a seating chart discussion with the fam without a fight? Legendary.
Every small step brings you closer to the day, so don’t wait until you’re walking down the aisle to pop some bubbly..
At the end of the day, your wedding should feel like yours. Not a highlight reel, not a budget black hole—just a day where you and your favorite person celebrate your love story.
So go forth, plan smart, and remember: A little sass, a little sparkle, and a whole lot of love will get you through.
xoxo,
Your Wedding Fairy Godmother